September 21, 2012 - UNITE and Espoir
To educate a girl is to educate a nation. Get 'er done. |
It’s
been almost four months since I’ve written to you. I placed much of my routine
on hold over the school vacation. Let’s start from the end of
June and work our way to present. I had a beautiful 24th birthday in
country thanks to a few good friends. This was followed by our Mid Service
Conference – the SED and CHAP group had made it past their year mark in
country. The only thing I remember about MSC was the Talent Show where lots of us attempted (and succeeded) to dance, sing, compose, recite poetry etc. Upon return
to Atakpame, a few of us spent three dollars for tickets to a TooFan concert.
If not thrilled for the music, we were definitely all curious to see the
performance. Of course, the first two or three hours we watched dance troops
stepping to Coole Catche – which does not involve a whole lot of acrobatics.
But the young hip Togolese crowd loved it. There had to be a few hundred
people packed into le Centre Culturale d'Atakpame. Then the stars of the night showed up and continued
in much the same vain – lip-sinking and unremarkable dancing. What’s funny is
that the back-up dancers putting on an athletic display were much more
entertaining than the performers. The two guys that make up TooFan were pacing back
and forth across the stage and miming into their microphone. Needless to say,
not impressive – a week’s worth of lunch money for something I grew up watching
my older cousins do in front of their mirrors.
In the bar around the corner, Atakpame, before the 2fan concert |
July was remarkable for the beginning of camp season –
Espoir and UNITE. Espoir is dedicated to children infected or affected by
HIV/AIDS. UNITE promotes leadership among Togolese youth – students and
apprentices alike. Both camps were redeeming – for a week you felt the
potential influence positive energy can have on a kid, her family, and community. At UNITE I witnessed how witty and resourceful
adolescent Togolese girls can really be - how a week of camp can begin to
inspire youth. We watched these videos from one of our donors about food security and the protection of the environment. They depicted stories of agricultural communities from around the world; and this was great because so many of the girls were surprised to see that places outside of Africa experience many of the same struggles as do poor families in Togo. Rather, that the color of your skin does not determine the lifestyle you lead. I felt very touched
during the candle ceremony when Chimen told us that the week of camp had
motivated her to continue her education. I never had much of an inclination to learn
any of Togo’s ‘boncs’ (i.e. icebreakers) - and now I have at least 48 hours’
worth of camp songs inscribed into the folds of my mind. Espoir was an
awesomely humbling experience – you could not have guessed that these girls had
a history with HIV/AIDS in observing how high-spirited they were. Honestly,
they were just like any other teenage girls sometimes – flirting with the young
guys on the kitchen staff, seeming uninterested in anything and yet getting
into our sessions just as much as their younger friends. A teenage girl like Samira – patient,
sincere, empathetic, whose mother passed away when she was 8 years old – put my
life into perspective. I had a lot of fun with my cabin; these hormone-ridden
girls gave me a lot of sass, but it was illuminating to observe how ubiquitous
adolescent anxieties can be - despite differences in geography and culture. After camp season ended we celebrated the entry of a new class of volunteers and said our final farewells to the volunteers that had welcomed us a year ago. It's strange to think that we could give advise to others. I feel just as silly most of the time, as I did when I first arrived.
December 2012
Time is enigmatic – you blink and you find yourself in the middle of the holiday season again. But this time around, I’m sitting at my kitchen table in Danbury. I’M HOME! For Christmas. I met my nephew – he is a beautiful, mischievous, charismatic little boy. This is really all I want to do - dance to Thriller with him in my living room. He had the most curious expression on his face as I was trying out my moonwalk. I'm in love :) Hopefully, we spend enough time together these next few weeks that he won’t forget me during the next 8 months that I won’t be around. Now I settle into the home stretch.
Time is enigmatic – you blink and you find yourself in the middle of the holiday season again. But this time around, I’m sitting at my kitchen table in Danbury. I’M HOME! For Christmas. I met my nephew – he is a beautiful, mischievous, charismatic little boy. This is really all I want to do - dance to Thriller with him in my living room. He had the most curious expression on his face as I was trying out my moonwalk. I'm in love :) Hopefully, we spend enough time together these next few weeks that he won’t forget me during the next 8 months that I won’t be around. Now I settle into the home stretch.
Titi and Tata |